Saturday, November 30, 2019

memory Essays (548 words) - The Bangles, Miracle Power, Hand Gloves

Find something that you value at many different aspects in your life. A pair of small round bangles was given to me as a gift from my grandmother. At the age around 80, She didn?t want to wear any jewellery and gave away all. My grandfather and mother, with whom I was so much attached mentally that my thought, belief, views all took a shape in a way that me the person who I am is partially was built by them. Their simple way of life and very simple happy everyday life influenced me so many ways whenever I see and I wear the bangles I feel I am very blessed with this very special gift. My grandmother was an illiterate woman and grew up in a very strong conservative Muslim family, early 2oth century she was born in a village grew up in a culture and time when a noble Muslim woman was not permitted walk beyond her home yard. I remember when she came to visit our home in Dhaka the capital city of Bangladesh, she wore a full body cover the black burka, a pair of black hand gloves, a pair of socks and it was very hard to see her eyes through the head Vail. I many time asked her how she could make it in a very hot humid day dressing up like that and, had a journey around 7 or eight hours. She smiled and said us ?don?t worry, time will change when you grow up, just study well, and study well so you can have a life as you desire. She knew a number of Quran verses but didn?t know how to read the Quran. She knew many poems that she learnt from her children when they studied for school. One thing she used to tell me, always be happy and satisfy what you have and be thankful to Allah for what he grants for you. When I was a kid I had problem in walking, on that time once my grandmother asked my father she had a a spiritual man who have miracle power to cure so I she wanted to take me to him , I was 12 years old and I was sent to her, when everybody fell into sleep she woke me up and we walk a long way in the middle of night ,passed through the meadow, vast paddy field and reached in a house yard that was crowed but dim lightening and the smel l of incense stick and burning candle, the place was very smoky its was like a circled meeting first with men then with women. The men was in kind of mental state he did not look to anybody but answer or sometime ask to people who are present I so wonder how a lady who never walked outside she every Thursday mid-night made alone this journey and surprising I found latter in my life she also highly enjoyed that four night walking all that long way to go and come . Only a lamp she When I feel sad or frustrated about something I think about back of my life my parents my grandmother specially her and her time. I feel very fortunate, this gift an inspiration to me.

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